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Sunday, January 12, 2014

making choices

choices.

most people today do not realize just how important making choices in life is. There are a million little strings attached to every choice you make; you can destroy your life every time you make a decision. maybe you won't know for twenty years, or maybe you find out in a few seconds.. && sometimes you'll never ever be able to trace it to its source when other times it'll be right in front of your face. in most cases, you only get one chance to play it out. because after all, your fate is what you create. i know i know, that is debatable.


Even though the world goes on for eons and eons, you are here for a fraction of a fraction of a second. Most of your time is spent being dead or not yet born. But while alive, you wait in vain, wasting years, for a phone call or a letter or a look from someone or something to make it all right. And it never comes or it seems to but doesn't really. And so you spend your time in vague regret or vaguer hope for something good to come along. Something to make you feel connected, to make you feel whole, to make you feel loved... so many people waste their lives in regret and i just think it's such a waste of life, a waste of valuable time others would give a million dollars for..




i know i talk about life being wasted, while i turn around and do it. but it's like i want to achieve perfection and try to avoid bad things, but there’s a devil in everyone.. we can't all be the way we want to be. we can't be [the person we preach to be entirely... and most of all, i can't please anyone, nor do i try anymore.


i became this way because of trust.

yep. trust- the word is just plain half ignorance applied to the concept that nobody can use it correctly, and in fact often abused. i can't do anything when my back is turned, i am blind. i am afraid of myself and every human being that has the power in their hands to deceive me.

&& what many don't know is it corrupts my mind, and way of thinking. that's where i start to dig, i dig myself a hole, a hole that i don't plan on ever getting out of.. what is this hole ?

this hole is wisdom. 

For everyone that lies or turns their back on me, I become wise and more observant. you make me stronger. yep. put that in your pipe and smoke it ;)




all jokes aside, let's face it-- i don’t get the option of picking or choosing when ill excite you, bore you or piss you off.

i’m a chick to wrapped up in her own business to notice your jealousy most of the time, and when i do, i become so consumed in what's wrong with you that i don't even know what to start to say to you. i can't help that i got that attitude where if I don’t mean shit to you, then you don’t mean shit to me, its not being bitchy -- its being wise, don't get it twisted.

lesson to learn: pretty faces can be monsters in masks. i can either be the cancer or the light of your life.



you decide <3

Rica -x0x-


14 comments:

  1. I agree we have to stop waiting for someone to make us happy... we are the only ones who can do that. I have been guilty of waiting for someone to say the right word, unfortunately they never do... :-/

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    1. You are absolutely right. This is especially seen in women'girls. We are jus a glutton for longing for that certain some one to come sweep us off out feet with those magical words.. lol

      thank you so much for commenting Launna! im glad we're following each othe :)

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  2. Great quotes and so true sometime its the hardest decision to make stay or walk away.
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  3. I totally agree with you, everything we do in life is a choice, the important thing is to weigh the options, and then decide what is best for YOU. Making choices is rarely easy. It can be simple – but that does not mean “easy”. Choosing between one difficult choice (with a less than desirable outcome) and another difficult choice (with a less than desirable outcome) is HARD to do. And many people prefer not to do anything for this reason. I think it is worth doing the hard work of choice making to maximise the likelihood of a better outcome for you.

    Thanks a lot for stopping by and for your lovely comment....but I'm afraid something went wrong, because you said you’re following me and I can't see you on my Google Freind Connect followers list :(

    x♥x♥

    "Saúde & Beleza - Health & Beauty"




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    1. Hi sweetie! I knew you were following me on "Google+", and I've followed you too there, but I couldn't find you before on my "Google friend connect" (blog followers list on your right side bar, with the title of "all my beauties", I'm your #83 follower there) ...so, thank you soooo much for taking your time checking it out again and follow, I'm also following you on both places ;)
      Hope you have a wonderful week full of things that makes your heart happy<3

      x♥x♥

      "Saúde & Beleza - Health & Beauty"




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  4. Hi sweetie! I knew you were following me on "Google+", and I've followed you too there, but I couldn't find you before on my "Google friend connect" (blog followers list on your right side bar, with the title of "all my beauties", I'm your #83 follower there) ...so, thank you soooo much for taking your time checking it out again and follow, I'm also following you on both places ;)
    Hope you have a wonderful week full of things that makes your heart happy<3

    x♥x♥

    "Saúde & Beleza - Health & Beauty"




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  5. Great inspiring post hun, Love what you said in lesson to learn.. Its true a girl can be the prettiest girl but can have the ugliest heart . Looks can be deceiving even the devil was once an angel lol. Thanks for the lovely comment, followed you back on google plus. Have a terrific day hun :)

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  6. Thanks for the nice comment you left on my blog. Followed back on GFC. Great post.
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  7. Brilliantly written hun, love your insight, I find making decisions on anything so difficult!

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  8. Great post! Thanks for sharing! Would you like to follow each other on GFC, bloglovin and facebook to stay in touch? Let me know, thanks!

    xx,
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  9. Really good thoughtful post. Thanks for following me

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