Friday, April 26, 2013

favorite spring cocktails xx


Since turning 21 last year, and turning 22 on April 27th (tomorrow!) I have been trying out cocktails every chance I get. I have tried a few that bartenders shared with me and after some research on what exactly is in them, i wanted to share this post with all of my (over 21) readers in case you wanted to try some thing new !! They are soooo yummy !! Let's get started!

top 6 spring cocktail recipes
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1. Tropical Blue Margarita
1 1/2 oz Tequila
1 o zBlue Curacao liqueur
1 oz lime juice
coarse salt
Rub rim of cocktail glass with lime juice. Dip rim in coarse salt. Shake tequila, blue curacao, and lime juice with ice, strain into the salt-rimmed glass, and serve.

2. Pink Lemonade Cocktail (serves 4-6)
1 (12-oz.) can frozen pink lemonade concentrate, thawed
3 (12-oz.) bottles beer (not dark), chilled
3/4 cup vodka, chilled
Ice
Garnishes: fresh cranberries, citrus slices
via MyRecipes.com

3. Passion Fruit Mojitos
Combine in a pitcher 2 parts Passion Fruit Mojito mix, 1 part white rum, and ice. Mix, then pour into ice-filled glasses. Top with a splash of club soda. Garnish with a mint sprig and a lime slice.
via RedbookMag

4. Raspberry Beer Cocktails (serves 6)
3/4 cup frozen raspberries
3 1/2 (12-oz.) bottles beer, chilled
1 (12-oz.) container frozen raspberry lemonade concentrate, thawed
1/2 cup vodka
Garnish: lemon and lime slices
Stir together first 4 ingredients. Serve over ice.
via MyRecipes.com

5. Kiwi Colada (serves 6)
5 peeled kiwifruit, divided
3 cups ice
1/4 cup light rum
1/4 cup Midori (melon-flavored liqueur)
3 tablespoons Cream of Coconut (such as Coco Lopez)
1 (8-ounce) can crushed pineapple in juice, undrained
via Cooking Light

6. Blackberry Julep (serves 1)
1 1/2 oz. Marie Brizard Blackberry
1 oz. Fresh Lemon Juice
1/2 oz. Simple Syrup
1 oz. water
Shake all ingredients with ice and strain into a glass filled crushed ice. Stir until the glass begins to frost. Garnish with marinated mixed berries




make your own cocktail umbrellas 


To made your drinks look even more prettier you can add little umbrellas as pictured. I love when I order a certain fruit drink, and the actual fruit is around the rim of the glass such as pineapple, kiwi, cherries, etc. There are so many ways to make these cocktails more springlike, just use your imagination!













Happy Drinking Everyone -- Be Safe !!! Do NOT Drink & Drive !!!!

Love, Rica xx

Thursday, April 11, 2013

[[ s.p.r.i.n.g f.a.s.h.i.o.n ]]


:: Spring ::

it's nature's way of saying "dress to impress showing less" ;-)  unfortunately in Chicago IL, we always get lulled into thinking spring is upon us all for us to get bombarded with two feet of snow a day later. Regardless though...  it was nice while it lasted, hopefully its a taste of whats to come. I’m dead set on leaving my winter wardrobe in storage, sexy as it may be, I cant wait to slip into my sexier spring and summer outfits!!

speaking of spring and summer outfits-- the spring trends this year i am going crazy for. emereld is the color of the year -- & i am a big teal fan so meh, close enough. i wanted to share all of the trends i am loving (off the shoulders, halters, pastels, etc) && the trends i am hating (loose shorts, peplums, etc) along with trends that have never went out of style in my book (maxis, short shorts, mini dresses, etc!!)


accessories ::
Ray-Ban Mirrored Cats 5000 Aviator Sunglasses
colored aviator su
   



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Bop Bijoux Woven Cuff
colored metal cuff

sixties stripes roger vivier blue striped clutch
stripes clutch























favorite dresses ;;


black skater skirt dress
lace white mini dress
h&m black hm ruffled dress




       






Hurley Featherweights Mixer Maxi Dress - Women'sDC Convert Dress - Women's





Hurley Casablanca Dress - Women'sVans McGee Dress - Women's




O'Neill Tory Maxi Dress - Women's



sporty ;;

::  Sweatsuit jumpers -- my two favorite LOVE PINK ones  ::





trends i am so not digging ;;
Jenni Kayne D'orsay Flats
D' orsay Flats





Current/Elliott The Moto Ankle Skinny Jeans
patch work jeans 
























long no shaped maxi skirts


i know i am going to get a lot of crap for the last trend i posted-- as those maxi skirts seem to be THE THING! lol i just cant fit right in them... any one else loving or hating any of the above items? let me know if i missed any thing !!

Rica x0x

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

forever 21 & charlotte russe haul xx

Whoever said there is no such thing as retail therapy clearly hasn't been to forever 21 and charlotte russe during their sales. i have been having a stressful week && after this past weekend, i am looking at the coming week with a smile ear to ear. let's get started!! xx

forever 21 haul < 3

 brown dress;; I love the fit of it.. soo cute! I will probably layer a white jacket and wear it to work, or by itself with a white or black waist belt with strappy heels.

pink geisha like dress- I love flowy tops! this dress i'll wear least out of the three, but good to have one like this for a special occasion

maroon turtle neck ribbed dress;; I am going to wear these with my black knee high boots & black waist belt  with my hair in a high pony tail, and a bump it in!

 
 
grey dress;; this is my favorite of them all. can't wait to rock it at a work event this weekend !! black knee high boots or booties would look beautiful !!

red chain dress;; ever have your girlfriends get ready w. you, and they want to wear your dress instead of their dress? this is one of those dresses i'd lend out.

white tank;; This is all see through lace on the sides and the whole back, very sexy! i wore it by itself for my boyfriend last night-- had a little photoshoot ;)
 
purple lacey dress;; i got this for work-- really need to revamp my work wardrobe if you couldnt tell :)
 
 
green silk skirt ;; I already wore this with a beige top to work.. so cutee!!
 
 
black lace dress;; i'm kind of on the lace bandwagon, i saw that it is going to be a big hit this spring.
 
 
 
 
Flat white winter boots to wear with... EVERY THING! i have already worn the hell out of them,
I am such a fanatic about keeping them clean too!
ive worn them with leggings, dresses, jeans, pants, but not yet with skirts.
 charlotte russe ;;

gray dress for work events [[every weekend]] 
i can also wear the white and green dress to work, or with some flip flops to the museums in chicago!
the navy blue blouse has lace that goes all the way down the back. it fits very tight, but some extra space around the tummy area for girls who have some extra baggage ;-]
 
 
That wraps up my mini haul.  i only came out to spending $147 total,  which i think is a great deal.
 
[[ Rica xo ]]
 

Friday, February 22, 2013

keep your make-up bag germ-free xx

hello beauty queens,

It isn't hard to tell by now how much of an extreme germaphobe i am. So when i saw some tips on how to keep your make up bag super clean, i was instantly drawn in. I then thought of different things i do without even noticing since being a fanatic is such second nature to me, and made a short list below.

Most girls don't know that every time you pull out your lip gloss or mascara, bacteria starts to  descend, ready to spread nasty infections such as sties, cold sores and the flu even!! && surprisingly, a new survey from the folks at Q-tips has found that only 34% women clean their makeup bags at least once a year. Ewww!

press the reset button;;
First of all, dump out everything and clean the bag thoroughly (inside and out) using anti-bacterial wipes or baby shampoo. Allow to dry completely before replacing the contents. Next, wash all makeup brushes thoroughly, whether or not they seem visibly dirty. This is also the perfect time to take stock of what you are actually using right now and store away the rest in a cool, dry place.
 
sanitize, sanitize, sanitize;;
I have an abundant supply of 99.9% alcohol, hand sanitizer and antibacterial brush cleansers. Once a month (or after you have had any infection, if you do)-- gently swab all makeup surfaces – blush, compact powder or foundation, lipstick, etc – with the 99% alcohol to de-germify. And keep a pencil sharpener handy – it’s the best way to keep your brow, eye and lip pencils sanitized. i also sanitize all outsides of each containers.
 
switch to plastic;;
Powders, dyes and germs latch on to cloth or canvas surfaces, making them difficult to clean. A makeup bag made from plastic, on the other hand, can be easily cleaned with a wet cloth, making it easier to maintain. a lot of people have various thoughts on this as with cloths, you can always throw it in the washer and dryer. only issue i have with that is i'd have to wash it by itself as i wouldnt want any of the poweders or creams getting onto any of the other items in with it.
 
 
sharing is not caring;;DO NOT SHARE YOUR MAKEUP EVER! i can't stand girls who ask me...especially mascaras, eyeliners, and lipsticks. some make think some thing like eye shadows are okay, but if you use your make up brush on it, apply to your eye, go get more, then reapply, you are putting the bacteria and skin cells on that eye shadow now. when your friend goes to use it, the same thing will occur. yuck! this is not being selfish–merely smart && safe.
 
double tasking;;
do not double-task your tools. Lip brushes should only be used on the lips, and the same goes for eyes. This is not a place to  mix-and-match. this is how cross contamination can easily occur. all parts of the face carry different skin bacterium you do not want getting mixed up. your mouth has a ton of acids in it to break down food, would you want any of those getting in your eyes per say? not likely.
 
 
Now for individual make up items, i listed one by one and what i do to
keep them cleaned as best as i can. i got a lot of these tips from a simple google search.
 
lipstick;;
metal containers are the best to buy as they aren't as bad of a breeding ground for bacteria like plastis ones are. as far as cleaning your lipstick, it’s a two-step method and should be followed every two weeks, or at least once a month. first grab a q-tip, hold it at an angle, slightly twist up your lipstick, and then scrape the top of the lipstick off. you don’t have to remove a large chunk, but instead remove the top layer of the lipstick. second, pour some rubbing alcohol [or vodka ]into a small dish and duck your exposed lipstick into the solution for at least 30 seconds. afterwards you can allow it to air dry, or gently wipe dry with a clean tissue.

pencils;;
This includes any type of makeup pencil from lip liner to eyeliner, brow pencil, etc. the simplest way to keep pencils clean is to sharpen them before each use. tou don’t have to remove that many layers, just a couple quick twists will do. if your pencils are retractable instead of sharpening, then pour some rubbing alcohol or vodka into a small container then dip the tip of the pencil into the solution for 30-seconds. later air dry or gently wipe dry with a clean tissue.
 
 
foundation;;
If you use a liquid foundation in an open bottle that requires the use of your fingertip, then you have to pour out the very top portion of the foundation in order to clean it. This doesn’t always remove all germs, since you tend to shake your foundation. this really bothered me so what i began doing was using q-tips to dip into the bottle instead, usually get a goop on the top of my hand, and use my foundation brush to apply face. of course wash and sanitize your hands every time you begin doing your make up. also use a different clean q-tip each time!

The ideal foundation will come in a pump, enclosed squeeze container, or in a large jar if you use a mousse or thicker cream foundation. the pump foundation is the cleanest, and you only need to take an antibacterial wipe to the pump in order to remove germs. squeeze containers are similar, requiring only the cleaning of the tip with an antibacterial wipe every two weeks. just remember not to touch the tip of the squeeze container with your fingertip, since this can cause germs to go into the container.
 
cake eyeshadow, powder, blush, & bronzer ;;
cake makeup products such as eyeshadow and blush are rather easy to clean. Simply grab a butter knife and scrape the top of the product into the trash can. Just be careful not to press down hard or you’ll break your product into pieces. This is also a good plan if you use a powder often and you form a compacted shiny area on the product, which is caused by oil from your skin.

make up bags && cases;;
Bags and cases that we store our makeup in can get very dirty quickly.  refer to the blog post i posted on keeping your make up bag germ-free! At least twice a month, or at least monthly, you should remove all products from your bag or case and give it a good cleaning. The best and quickest way to do this is with antibacterial wipes. Simple wipe the inside of the bag or case until any makeup residue is gone. do not wipe the outside of your bag or case with antibacterial wipes unless you know that it will not damage the finish.if you feel that your makeup bag or case is still loaded with germs after wiping them down then simply place them in the freezer overnight. The extreme cold will destroy any germs left behind, even after using antibacterial wipes.

make up brushes ;;
Brushes may seem difficult to clean, but it’s actually very easy. i am currently writing a more in depth blog post on this and will be posting later this month. In between washing your makeup brushes. you can spray them with a solution of one part water to nine parts vodka or rubbing alcohol. Spray the solution on a dry cloth and then wipe your brush across it, quickly and easily removing makeup from the surface of the bristles. It’s a good idea to do this after each use, and then follow up with a regimen for washing your makeup brushes every two weeks or every month.

makeup products you can’t clean;;
 There are certain products you can’t clean, and should be thrown out after using it for so long or if you end up with an infection. i have the basic life line of each item listed below.
 
--the most important product not to clean is mascara. You may think you can clean the wand in order to keep the mascara longer, but germs still get into the product with each use. Besides, mascara isn’t manufactured to last for years so just let it go. in extreme situations, i'll just use water and a baby wipe the wand  down, but that's as far as i will go. it is also dangerous to use a product as opposed to just water as the products may cause eye infections, or a sty.
-- lip gloss in a tube is easier to clean because you can wipe down the tip, but sponge applicators and pan lip gloss can’t really be saved and should be tossed if you have an infection. otherwise, if it smells normal you may be able to keep it for a year or two.
-- disposable makeup sponges are just that; disposable. They are not meant to be washed and reused for months at a time. If you find that you’re getting more breakouts than normal and you use sponge applicators then toss them ASAP.
-- nail polish really can’t be cleaned. So if you have a fungal infection on your nails, or you let a friend use your favorite nail polish and they have an infection just throw that shit out. it’s better to buy a new one than take the risk of getting a nail infection..those are never fun !
 
 
 So that's it in a nutshell. Stay tuned for my post on how to thoroughly clean your make up brushes.
i have so many blogs that i have been working so hard on, i am almost finishing them all up. so hard working 50hr+ work weeks, spending time with my boyfriend, and trying to furnish and make this new townhome 'homey' to get time in for my blog. but i never stay away too long!! =)
 
 
so tell me how often do you all clean your makeup bag?
tell me in the comments section--i promise not to judge!
if you learned some thing new, or have some thing to add let me know and i'll add it on!!
 
 
[[ Rica x0x ]]

what is your acne telling you?

hello to all my beauty queens,
I recently came across an article on how the Spots in different zones on your face correspond to different problems going on in your body. So, with this “map” as your guide, you can address the underlying causes of blemishes and not only make the unsightly zits vanish but also treat the underlying health problem in time. i have yet to try one 'cure' out to see if it works as i don't have any
pimples right now. I will definitey make sure i do, and see how accurate it is for me.
Remember, all of us are different!

i didn't write this post, i simply copied + pasted it from the beauty gypsy!
She has amazing make up tips and tricks
 Pretty awesome, right? .
Try it out: here is how to decode breakouts in the basic areas.



1 & 2: Digestive System — Eat less processed or junk food, reduce the amount of fat in your diet, step up water intake and opt for cooling things like cucumbers.

3: Liver — Cut out the alcohol, greasy food and dairy. This is the zone where food allergies also show up first, so take a look at your ingredients. Besides all this, do 30 minutes of light exercise every day and get adequate sleep so your liver can rest.

4 & 5: Kidneys — Anything around the eyes (including dark circles) point to dehydration. Drink up!

6: Heart — Check your blood pressure (mine was slightly high) and Vitamin B levels. Decrease the intake of spicy or pungent food, cut down on meat and get more fresh air. Besides this, look into ways to lower cholesterol, like replacing “bad fats” with “good fats” such as Omegas 3 and 6 found in nuts, avocados, fish and flax seed. Also, since this area is chock-full of dilated pores, check that your makeup is not past its expiry date or is skin-clogging.

7 & 8: Kidneys — Again, drink up! And cut down on aerated drinks, coffee and alcohol as these will cause further dehydration.

Zone 9 & 10: Respiratory system— Do you smoke? Have allergies? This is your problem area for both. If neither of these is the issue, don’t let your body overheat, eat more cooling foods, cut down on sugar and get more fresh air. Also keep the body more alkaline by avoiding foods that make the body acidic (meat, dairy, alcohol, caffeine, sugar) and adding more alkalizing foods like green veggies and wheatgrass juice. Another thing that most of forget – dirty cell phones and pillow cases are two of the top acne culprits and this area is what they affect the most!

Zone 11 & 12: Hormones — This is the signature zone for stress and hormonal changes. And while both are sometimes unavoidable, you can decrease their effect by getting adequate sleep, drinking enough water, eating leafy veggies and keeping skin scrupulously clean. Another interesting point: breakouts in this area indicate when you are ovulating (and on which side).

Zone 13: Stomach — Step up the fibre intake, reduce the toxin overload and drink herbal teas to help with digestion.

14: Illness — Zits here can be a sign that your body is fighting bacteria to avoid illness. Give it a break, take a yoga class, take a nap, take time to breathe deeply, drink plenty of water and know that everything always works out!

So the next time you break out or notice dark under-eye circles, look to your face map!! chances are your skin is probably trying to communicate on behalf of the internal organs. However, do remember that, as with all medical issues, it is always best to see your doctor or dermotologist for a proper prognosis. This is just a general guide to head you off in the right investigative direction – just because you break out between the brows doesn’t always mean you have a bad liver!
 
[[ Rica xOx ]]
 

Thursday, January 31, 2013

winter fashion xx

Winter is coming here full force, and i am dreading every minute. Chicago was recently hit with a couple inches of snow, and that alone was a nightmare. Luckily I got a car cover for the new car, so while every other car was dirty and salty -- i was shining because I had it detailed the day prior ;] anyway, so we all want to look our best, but it’s just so hard to bundle up and still score high in the looks department..

so instead of forfeiting style for comfort, i wanted to share my best kept secrets on items of clothing i have always been thrilled about wearing throughout these harsh winter months. drum
roll please...

winter accessories ;;
hats, gloves, scarves -- i used to dread all of these as a kid when my mother made me wear everrrryy single thing you can think of. I felt like the kid in a christmas story who couldn't put his arms down, lol these days, i am obsessed with hat, glove, and scarves sets. i have a nice soft set in white, red, and purple. below is a picture of 40 different ways you can tie a scarf -- i have done probably 40% of the suggestions they have listed...some are too 'grandma'ish ;)

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sweaters ;;
Every closet requires that one sweater that scores an A+ in comfiness, looks, and warmth. i copied +  pasted a picture of my two favorite sweaters i have that im obessed with. this first one is pretty light. it's good to work out in. i also really love it for in the fall when i have to run errands as i throw leggings and my uggs on, && im ready to go. the second sweater much more heavier. this one is awesome for being on the go, keeping very warm, but also very easily manueverable. 
 
 
uggs;;
these are my current go to pair to wear when running out of the house. they're warm, stylish, and keep the snow out of my ankles/feet! in chicago, thats almost inevitable! it took me a while to hop on the ugg bandwagon because i used to think they were so ugly, but i can tolerate black uggs and leopard print ones like i have pictured below. the whole sequince and sparkle idea isn't really my thangg.
 

blazers;;
if you get lucky, you can wear just this out on a nice chicago day;; dont count on it though. i like this because i like clothing that is long-sleeved with a slight stretch that conforms to your body. This way, if you throw a blouse on underneath, there is no bulk. below is a blazer i guess i'd call it that i really want. i have so many skirts, dress pants, etc that would look nice with it. you can do it up nicely mainly -- wouldn't know how to wear this casually. any suggestions?


leggings ;;
leggings have always been a favorite to us ladies. the other day i went to Stratford mall in Bloomingdale, and saw 'sweater leggings' these ones below in the picture are ones i would wear lounging around the house, or on a day of running errands. i also don't like the way she matched them either. i did however go out and find a similar pattern but the colors were black, white, and dark gray so that can be much more easily suitable to match with other items.



leg warmers ;;
okay these are my #1 favorite winter accessory to wear. i love me some leggings! i have just about every color you can think of.. a whole drawer dedicated to them and my leggings. i like to wear them with my boots over leggings as pictured in the second image.
 






 

miscellaneous accessories;;
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aren't these fuckin awesome!? i want them soo bad. i wonder how thick the bottom sole is. does any one have these? share some intel !!

i will look up some reviews on them, and see how warm they really are, how it feels to walk in them, etc. If all signs point to yes, i will most definitely be adding these to my collection.

The website on the bottom of the image sells them, i am unsure if any other more well known companies sell them as well-- if any one knows, do tell.








 




I want these soooo bad. Definitely adding them to the wishlist. I saw them on pinterest though... does any one know of a store/company who sells a pair similar to these pictured?? please tell me.
i have to have these by winter's end !!!


 

 


Who ever came up with this idea is genius. i have so many shoes i hate wearing no socks with. its like wearing gym shoes with no socks to me...im sure you all can relate. therefore these would work perfectly for heels that i'd wear pants with. i have a few pairs this would suite well.
 











My absolute favourite textures that are winter appropriate are leather, flannel, velvet, knit, faux fur... what i can pass on are tweed, sequins, shearling...not my thing. i really enjoy watching the women of downtown chicago dress their winter finest. the outfits below are from my www.polyvore.com account and pretty much what i see downtown on a daily basis.






 
i would love to have just ONE of those outfits!! everyone in a cold state, stay warm!! every one in a warm place, fuck you!!!
 
xox rica
 
 
 
 

Thursday, January 24, 2013

menstraul cramps remedies xx

If there is one thing that brings us women all to our worse, it's menstraul cramps! i have always
gotten them the absolute worse! I had to miss two days of school each month, both of which i laid in  the fetal position balling and balling until the two vicodins, midol kicked in and to when my skin was scorching red from sticking the heat pad on it without the cover because it wasn't working unless i did so! I stopped getting them so bad EVERY month around 19 years old, and now get them to that magnitude every other or two months. && for that i am 1000% grateful.

Along with the period comes the tender boobies, acne prone all over your face and body, the grogginess, the  "ohhhs" and "ahhs" -- as you get older most of which go away. I still get the oohs and ahhs, and tender boobs, but my acne has been great -- havent had a flare up in forever. I also have a lot of energy due to my diet and vitamins.

I came across an article on the beauty gypsy stating these little home made formulas are the top 5 tried, tested and proven to work !! These mentraul cramp remedies seem to be a big hit...

[1] Guyanese Ginger & Clove Blend
Put 2 teaspoons of powdered ginger, 5 whole cloves and one cup of water in a saucepan and bring to a boil. Lower the heat and allow to simmer for 5 minutes. Strain and drink while hot.

[2] Jamaican Wonder WaterPlace a quarter cup of white overproof rum (bonus points if you can get your hands on Wray & Nephew’s 151-Proof White Rum) and some ice cubes in a cocktail glass. Add a splash of water and a twist of lemon. Repeat judiciously! This really works… so well, in fact, that it’s my favourite period pain remedy of the lot!

[3] Chinese Ginger TeaPour a cup of boiling water over one tablespoon of freshly grated ginger. Allow the ginger to steep for at least 5 minutes, then strain and drink as a tea.

[4] Mexican Oregano Potion
Place one tablespoon of dried oregano in a tea ball or a small square of muslin cloth. Pour a cup of boiling water over the oregano and allow it to steep for 5 minutes. Remove the tea ball and drink the tea while it is hot. Repeat if the menstrual cramps persist.

[5] South American Chamomile Cure
Pour a cup of boiling water over one tablespoon of fresh chamomile flowers (or half a tablespoon of dried chamomile) and allow to steep for 5 minutes. Then strain out the flowers, add some honey and lemon (to taste) and drink while hot. Voila!
 hese


What’s your go-to remedy for tackling the cruel menstrual cramps?
Have any of these worked for you, or have not worked for you?

Let me know as I am unsure which to try first!!

[[ Rica x0x ]]

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

a formal fuck you.

F.U.C.K. Y.O.U.
 
I like how the people who are supposed to be there for you through any type of weather are no where to be found for me. there are times when i am in desperate help, and not a single soul would help me, or try to help me. i believe in karma, and my karma should be excellent with the way i treat my family and friends. so why is this happening to me? is this God's way of trying to keep me strong? well what the fuck God, i am not liking this one bit! i have been on my own since I was 16 years old, and have always promised myself i would make it and that i was making the absolute right decision. i did. i am glad i moved out, and am glad i had to deal with all of the responsibilities i have at this age while all of my peers were still partying at mommy and daddys house on mommy and daddy's money.

i grew up quick, and love it. i am soo much more wise than people my age, and because of it a lot of them come to me for help. what do i do? of course i help them out. why? because that is the type of person i am. i love helping people, and being there for people. it makes me feel good inside. but lately, i have been noticing i am not following my own advice. i am not practicing what i am preaching. this is when i found out that...

The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others.

as much as i want to deny it, i can't. if i followed all that i tell others, i wouldn't be so partially unhappy with the people i am unhappy with. i find myself always being there for my friends. i always give them advice, i listen ot them. and the one thing i wont ever do under any any ANY circumstances is judge them. So why don't i get that in return?

it's one thing to turn down someone who came to you for help, but to completely ignore them is another. funny how when i go to ask other things that don't ask for help or their advice on something, they are quick to respond. but when it comes to me asking them for something, or to help me with something, they are missing in fucken action!! i don't get it! at least have enough dignity to fucken tell me NO, i'd rather hear that than continueing to message or contact you via whatever means possible and become an annoying nuissance and eventually leading me to look very stupid and desperate.


but its all good. there is only one person that keeps me around. its hard to give that up, but i don't think i would be able to handle this very much longer. i have given them numerous chances to switch things, to make things right between everyone of us, but it is still always my fault and it is always ME that fucks things back up. this is sooo far from the truth. they just can't get over that i am making it without them, and am going to continue making it. they can't stand to see my happiness, so they try to point things out on my life that aren't supposed to be the way they are. they must think i am stupid, and think for one second they know what goes on in my life when they don't because they never take the time to hear me, to listen to me, to see me, let alone to even remember me! i am always forgotten on big events/vacations, etc and never know about any news until wayyy after the fact. i just am not a part of the circle any more, and finally am giving up on trying to be.

people are going to want you. need you. exceed you. take you. love you. hate you. play you. rate you. save you and break you. but thats what makes you

i'm not doing SHIT for any one any more. im done with being ignored, forgotten, and a dissapointment to all of you. from now on, i am doing my own thing. dueces.

hugs.. one size fits all. i can really use one right now.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

new years eve dresses xx

NEW YEARS!

woo! who is as excited to get the hell away from 2012 as i am ?? i was recently invited to this huge N.Y.E party, and after going through my wardrobe (which is all currently in boxes since i am moving) i just said "forget it-- great glam it is"

www.GreatGlam.com is a website with the most gorgeous dresses, shoes, any thing glam for the very cheap! i have known about it for quite a while, i figured it's time to share one of my best kept secrets (BTW def thinking of creating a blog hop on "best kept secrets" LOL ) all the dresses i am listing below were between $25-30 each. now remember i was opting for a more calm, but sexy look. I didn't want extreme patterns, or bright bright colors. i went for a more subtle look because quite frankly i am so sick of all the stares.





This is an all black jumpsuit that i know is kind of 'out there' if you knew any thing about my style. lol i am considering it for it's warmth, as well as to play it up with accessories. i was thinking of my bright red waist belt with the matching close-toed pumps i have in red as well. Of course a red-matte lipstick and black eye make up.


I see this type of style on Kim Kardashion a lot. She does the whole waist accentuated bit. i want it because i have a very round bottom half, and think this dress would make that look a bit more ... tight? lol

Unlike the model, I was thinking a tight pony tail with a bump-it oomph, long dangling sparkly earrings with black pumps.



Unlike the model, my chest is very far from bulging out. i think because of that fact this dress would look sooo much more fabulous on me. I have black pimps with leopard print on the bottom sole that would do perfectly with this. Black dangling earrings and bangles, no necklace.




Again, minimal chest thing works to my advantage with these types of dresses. i really like being able to breath but yet keeping my curves in check lol This isn't one of my favorites, but definitely a consideration because i have metallic bangles that would match nicely with the metallic stripes on the top.



This is one of my favorites. I just love the sleeves. Not to mention I have a waist belt just like the ones on the elbows. Hair straight down, a minimal necklace and my sparkly pumps. they kind of have a gold tint to them though so i may just decide to do the black pumps.








Okay I think I narrowed it down enough. Can my beautiful followers help me out by picking your favorite one ?? Also my "ideas" for what to wear and howto accessorize the outfits is deffff up for debate as well. Help me out mamasitas!!

xox rica

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